Monday, December 3, 2007

With us at last...

I will (really...I will) be posting pictures later today (we cannot post pictures from the computer we are using here and will be going to an internet cafe later to post them...really).

We picked up our little man at the orphanage yesterday and watched as caregivers, teachers and doctors said their tearful goodbyes. We met with the orphanage director for a while and gave her a very large donation of diapers that were purchased with money kindly supplied by staff members at the school at which I am employed (A BIG THANK YOU FROM RUSSIA TO HORACE MAY ELEMENTARY!!) I had hoped to take pictures of the donation but had to set the large bags down and when we walked into the orphanage for our meeting and when I came out the diapers had already been put to use!

We took the advice of some folks on FRUA (Families for Russian and Ukraine Adoption) and asked if a caregiver or two would write down some hopes or memories of him during his first 16 months. We received four very nice letters - two of them from doctors. I think we will be thankful we did that someday. Right before we left the orphanage director (who is normally a rather stearn woman) pulled us aside and handed me this large bag tied with a ribbon. She whispered to our translator that we are always welcome in Petrozavodsk and that she hopes we will come back to bring home a third child! She then handed me the bag and said she wishes us a warm heart and much health and happiness. Inside the bag was a beautiful winter coat and snowsuit, an outfit, two warm hats and a wonderful pair of boots for our little man to wear next year - it is seriously the nicest winter clothing I have ever seen. Our coordinator was totally taken back - she said she has never seen anyone recieve a gift from the orphanage before. It was a great moment and I could tell our little guy had touched a really special place in her heart as she wiped tears away when we left.


We then took him on his first car ride (other than when he was taken from the hospital to the orphanage at 4 months old). We had to run into the busiest (and only) supermarket. He did really well but had huge eyes the entire trip. We thought when we got to the apartment he would take a few days to warm up, that he would likely be quiet and reserved for a while (that was how he was most often when we visited him at the orphanage). WOW - were we wrong!! He ran up and down the hallway until nearly 10:00 at night, laughing and giggling the whole time, stopping only to eat (and eat and eat!!). Ryan finally got him to sleep by laying and blocking him from getting out of bed, putting him back in his bed numerous times after he tried climbing over him. Our makeshift crib (two large chairs together) did not work for a moment as he boosted himself over the back of one within seconds. He is very busy and we are absolutely loving every moment of it!

5 comments:

Shane & Marie said...

It sounds like he was very loved! How sweet of them to write letters and give you clothes for him. I bet it was bittersweet, but I am sure it was even more wonderful to take him with you this time. Sounds like you have a wild one on your hands!

Scott said...

What a great first day! Hard to read without a tear in my eye. We are both so happy for you! Hope things continue to go well and can't wait to see ya Brady!

Scott, Megan, and Jacob

Susan said...

His goodbye brought tears to my eyes! What a wonderful group of people that were taking care of your son. Congratulations on being together as a family!!

Adrienne, Another Ordinary Miracle said...

Congratulations!!! Sounds like he's doing just great! I was so touched by the orphanage staff's farewell. The letters were such a wonderful idea! It sounds like he was loved so much by his caregivers and should transfer his love of them to you easily. He sounds so sweet, and his sister sounds like she is so proud to have him with her at last!! I can't wait to see pictures!
Adrienne

Susan said...

Hey, you're making me all misty here! What a wonderful experience. I'm glad he'll have those letters when he's older to see what a special spot he touched with the staff. Amazing about the gift from the director!